Meanwhile, if a man cuddles you, is actually there when you wake up in the morning, and goes as far as to make you breakfast, he's interested in something serious. If the guy that you've been sleeping with has never sent you a morning text, and only contacts you after you're already snuggled into your pajamas, then he's only looking for a little loving. Meanwhile, if he texts you as soon as he wakes up in the morning until he goes to bed at night, he's serious about you.
If he only wanted sex, then he would've left as soon as he got it. Even though nudes are quick and easy to send over the phone, it doesn't mean that it's okay for a man to ask for them.
If he was interested in anything more, then he would be happy to listen to you talk about the girl at work you can't stand.
If he considered you his girlfriend, then he would want to show you off.
If he wanted a serious relationship with you, then he'd respect you inside and outside of the bedroom.
That means that making you climax would be just as important to him as reaching the big "O" himself.
Men should tell us exactly what they're looking for before they get us into bed with them, but some of them use our naivety to their advantage.
So if he's pressuring you to have sex, that's because sex is the only thing he's interested in.
If you want to test him to see if he's only sticking around to get laid, then tell him that you're planning on waiting a while.
He'll be out the door before you finish getting dressed.
Even if he dozes off and agrees to stay for a while, he'll still sneak away in the middle of the night. He just wants you to invite him over for a "no strings attached" hookup that means absolutely nothing to him.