So even though you’re the man in her life now, she will always find a way to differentiate you with the ex.Whether you’re having a nice meal, she will unconsciously say “oh my ex hated mashed potatoes, so glad you like it,” or you go shopping and she will say “my ex hated shopping.” In the beginning of your relationship you won’t notice it but gradually it becomes a pattern.If she is at a certain age (especially over 40) most people will associate her as either a lesbian, or a manipulative wicked witch with a “B”, or a selfish pratt or a woman who can’t keep a guy and all sorts of assumptions.Though this may not always be true, most divorcees can’t handle the assumptions whether they are true or not.Regardless of whether it’s a divorced man or woman, do not attempt to date them.For those of you that are already dating a divorced person and are happy with it, well good for you.Statistics show that children are more likely to bond with a male partner of their mother than the female partner of their father.
When I wrote it, I was writing it based on my own experience in that matter, and it was relieving to see that over 80% of people who read this were either in the same boat as me or agreed with me.
You are the tool that shows she’s moved on and she doesn’t just take you as you are.
She will dominate you, she will ensure she’s the boss.
“My ex did this, my ex hates/loves that, my ex is blah blah blah.” If her ex has found happiness with someone else, it doesn’t go down well with her.
Even if she is happy with you, she will still want to find ways to infiltrate her ex’s life as it hurts her badly that another woman is successful with the ex and not her.